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Is it my fault?
People feel anxious, depressed or suicidal for many different reasons. Many young people blame themselves for all kinds of problems or conflicts they have with family, friends, or even in school.
What is suicide?
Am I suicidal?
Why am I suicidal?
Is it my fault?
How do I get help?
How can Nineline help me?
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They start to believe that their families and/or the world would be much better off without them. It's much more helpful to figure out why you feel this way and find help rather than blaming yourself or someone else.
Warning signs include:
- Feelings of anxiety, loneliness, grief, anger or depression
- Thoughts of suicide, death, dying or the afterlife
- Impulsive and aggressive behavior; frequent expressions of rage
- Previous exposure to someone else that committed suicide
- Family loss, instability or a significant family conflict
- Recent stress (e.g., difficulties in dealing with sexual orientation; unplanned pregnancy or other significant real or impending loss)
- Reliance on drugs or alcohol
If this describes you or a friend, remember you are not alone, talk to someone: -- a relative, sibling, your other parent, a friend, a counselor or therapist, a priest, minister, rabbi or spiritual advisor about what you are feeling. Remember, you are not alone and can get help with this.